Wedding - should I stay or should I go now

[Adonis]

Of course, you're all talking complete sense. Just needed it reaffirmed in my mind. Actually maybe I could take my daughter to Dublin for a bit while they're away. I could take some of my due holidays.

[Nemesis]

Originally posted by Adonis:
Yes, that's all very true. Just her family never liked me. Between you, me, and the lamp-post, her mother is a right B**** and will delight in rubbing my nose in it.

Turn up with a good lookin woman and rub her nose right back in it...no - just go and show her that you're a stronger/better person than she is and your daughter will love to have your attention all day, especially as her mum will be slightly pre-occupied !!!

[bear]

haven't a clue about your relationship with her...but i don't think you would invite an ex just to be polite.

[Adonis]

Good morning everyone. I trust that everyone is in fine form, even if the weather is less than perfection itself.

I have a question: the mother of my daughter is getting married and I have been invited. I'm delighted for her and the new man is very nice and we've had a few drinks together. But should I go?

[Jonny]

From the whole tenor of your post, Adonis, doesn't sound like there's a reason you shouldn't, for everyone's sake. Just a question of whether you wanna spectate...

[Adonis]

Just feel that perhaps I shouldn't intrude on their day.

[Jonny]

Who's intruding? You've been invited!
Plus, wouldn't your daughter love to see you?

[This message has been edited by Jonny (edited 08 June 2000).]

[deeb]

If she's invited you, go.

[Adonis]

Yes, that's all very true. Just her family never liked me. Between you, me, and the lamp-post, her mother is a right B**** and will delight in rubbing my nose in it.

[Jonny]

Well, it sounds like her family is the only consideration for you here Adonis. If you can steel yourself and rise above the bastards, then definitely you ought to go.

[This message has been edited by Jonny (edited 08 June 2000).]

[deeb]

Rubbing your nose in what? the fact that she's getting married?
I think it's great that you seem to get on, for your daughter's sake.

[Lady Hawke]

I say to go for the daughter. You're better than her family.

[Jonny]

Anyway, talking of weddings, I have to get to the airport to go to one. Play nicely kids, and speak to you all on Monday!! (And best of luck, Adonis!)